An Advent Teaching on Fear

Psalm 27:1-6, 11-12 and I John 4:16b-18

First Sunday in Advent + November 28, 2004

Douglas K. Huneke

 

Life has the illusive feeling of being easier when people do not deviate from their path.  On the one hand humans prefer predictability, familiarity, and reliable directions; on the other hand we would not enjoy the positive benefits of modern life if we did not look beyond horizons, take paths less traveled, and ask forbidden or impossible questions.

Whether we speak of science, law, technology, medicine, or spirituality there is a certain trust that instills confidence that in turn enables a person to step out, follow a hope or a dream, or journey without maps or even a discernible destination.  Fear, that powerful human leveler, is the adversary of trust and the enemy of confidence.  Fear prevents people from looking around the corner, from asking ‘why,’ or ‘why not,’ or ‘what if,’ and from living life abundantly. 

The opposite of love is not hate, as we might assume.  Fear is the opposite of love.  In his first letter, John hit the nail on the head: “There is no fear in love, perfect love drives out all fear.”  Christ’s love fills our spiritual center with trust and confidence.  Love silences fear, trust inspires courage, and we are free to discern where the Spirit wants to lead us.

This first Sunday in Advent, two central characters in the Christmas drama teach us about fear and perfect love, trust and confidence.  The angel Gabriel showed up unbidden one lovely day in Nazareth to speak with a fine young woman.  He meant well but his words troubled her soul – no big surprise there!  Thinking he made her afraid, Gabriel told not to fear.  It was not the angel’s words that calmed her soul.  Mary was at peace because she trusted her experience of God’s perfect love and her own perfect love.  Mary was fearless because she had a healthy sense of self that was integrated with her faith. “Perfect love drives out all fear.”

What would have happened if Mary allowed fear rather than love to rule her life and guide her choices?  One of the most insidious forms of fear is self-doubt.  It is a vicious cycle: self-doubt diminishes trust and without trust it is impossible to embrace and to become perfect love.  Because Mary paid attention to and practiced her faith, she was openhearted to discern and affirm the Divine call to embody perfect love.

Mary teaches us the practical lesson that when our faith and being are integrated our souls open to embody perfect love, and fear and self-doubt give way to a life rich with horizons, creative energy, surprises, and adventures.  She teaches us that when we struggle with a decision or face a crisis there is a life-changing truth in the words of Scripture, “There is no fear in love, perfect love drives out fear.”  Pastor Dietrich Bonhoeffer, on Christmas morning one month after the Nazis imprisoned him for his part in the General’s Plot to assassinate Hitler, struggled with fear and love, loneliness and presence, trust and self-doubt.  He prayed, “I do not understand thy ways [O God], but thou knowest the way for me…. Give me the hope that will deliver me from fear and faintheartedness…. ‘If God had not been with me and led me by the light of his countenance, my fear would have prevailed over me.  Everything has its day, but God’s love is eternal.’”[i]

The second set of characters is the shepherd crew standing watch in the fields on Christmas night.  They were responsible for guarding the unblemished sheep for Temple sacrifice.  Winter nights in Israel are very cold.  Stealthy predators move swiftly and silently between streambeds and stone outcroppings searching for prey.  Bundled against the cold, the shepherd’s acute heading had to pick-up the nearly inaudible sound of a pebble turn under a paw, the touch of two leaves on a dry branch as fur breezes past, and sense the subtle tensing of muscles in a defenseless lamb, whose shape they could barely see in the starlight, as it caught the predator’s scent.

   Without warning, out of nowhere, an ethereal light filled the sky over the field, voices whispered, “Don’t be afraid…good news…great joy…a baby in a manger.”  Now imagine, 12 a.m., you are warm and sleeping soundly as 100 souped-up Chevy’s, each with a trunk full of triple amp Quadra super bass amplifiers, driven by 16 year olds, all the windows rolled down, park in front of your house and as “one Chevy voice,” at the highest mega augmented volume, play a rap rendition of the “Hallelujah Chorus.”  Imagine that, and you have a sense of what happened next in the Shepherd’s Field as, so Scripture describes it, “A great army of heavenly angels sang praises: ‘Glory to God in the highest heaven, and peace on earth….” Now that’ll get your juices flowing! And it did for the shepherds!

The angelic message to the shepherds was almost the same as Gabriel’s to Mary: Don’t fear, good news: Love is here at last…great joy…the savior is born…a manger behind the tavern!  Friends, what we have here is God’s eternal, timeless, trans-historic message in human form, Love has cast out fear!

Read the newspaper, listen to Fox or CNN or Michael Moore or Bill O’Reilly, picture the world’s predatory forces that you most fear, surface the sub-conscious dread that has hung over our souls since 9/11.  And now you have a sense of the troubled and profoundly compassionate mind of Christ when he looked out over “a great throng of people, and he had compassion on them because they were like sheep without a shepherd….”[ii] The economy, terrorists, cancers, global provocations, the curtailing of civil rights, vocational upheaval, and the amorphous and pervasive societal insecurity – those are some of the stealthy wolves barring their teeth against us.  It is Jesus Christ who knows the fears in our hearts and has compassion for us because the world and life have the power to render us like defenseless sheep without a shepherd.

The Christmas shepherds remind us, against all odds and every dread, that we must not ally ourselves with false hope or surrender our souls to anything less than perfect love that will be born in us again!  Love was born in the manger, fear was vanquished! 

Advent is a season of waiting and preparing.  This Advent, as Mary, we will get pregnant with Perfect Love, and prepare to embody perfect love that drives out fear and self-doubt, and say “Yes!” to Christ so that his love is our love and lives in us day-by-day! 

This first week of Advent, squarely face your fears – personal and global, conscious and shadowed – look at how each robs you of love and self-confidence, limits your trust, and keeps you from living fully and freely.  As you look at each fear, lay each one in the manger of your mind, and pray Pastor Bonhoeffer prayer, “I do not understand thy ways [O God], but thou knowest the way for me…. Give me the hope that will deliver me from fear and faintheartedness….” And then we will know as our brother Dietrich knew, “If God had not been with me and led me by the light of his countenance, my fear would have prevailed over me.  Everything has its day, but God’s love is eternal.”

It is true, we have tasted it, and we want to live it: “There is no fear in love; perfect love drives out all fear!”  Live the truth of those words; it is your best Christmas present ever.   

 

 

 

 



[i] Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Letters and Papers from Prison, pg. 74.

[ii] Mark 6:34.